I'm not *quite* sure what you mean here but I do regret that my statement might not have conveyed what I meant it to (side experiment: imply that a woman would falsely accuse rape and see if she gets angry). If I had spent more time on my reply, it would have gone something like this: The staff has deemed it fit to create a Code of Conduct for the shard to ensure that this shard is welcoming to all players. Without the Code of Conduct, it's easy to imagine a scenario wherein the shard becomes full of assholes (not in-game assholes, for which I think my track record is pretty clean about not getting bent out of shape when "felucca" happens). I've seen it on other shards' forums and IRC channels. I would not like to see it here. So, if someone says something racist, or sexist, or anything else specifically targeted in the Code of Conduct, it shouldn't be "petty" to call that person out for his or her behavior. But, I see now that it was maybe not worth it to say anything since some people think it's just a big old joke to imply that someone who's being uncool must be a girl or have a bleeding vagina or something. Believe it or not, that does not create a welcoming environment for women players. That directly goes against the staff's wishes, which are that UOR be a place for people from all different types of communities to come together and enjoy this cool computer game. And on a personal note, it gets tiresome to have to read that kind of shit over and over again. So I spoke up this time. Fuck it. I think most people who play here are all right!